Getting married was always part of our plan — we just didn’t expect to do it from opposite sides of the world.
When you’re in a relationship separated by distance, especially with international logistics, everything gets more complicated. Time zones, travel restrictions, planning — online wedding even picking a date can feel stressful.
We wanted to start our life together. But a traditional wedding just wasn’t realistic.
Then we found out we could say “I do” over Zoom — for real.
At first, we thought it was only symbolic. But after researching, we learned that states like Utah offer fully virtual marriages — with a licensed officiant and official paperwork — and they’re 100% valid.
We decided to go for it.
Here’s how it worked for us:
- We verified our identities and filled out a quick form.
- We booked our wedding time with an officiant who was licensed for online ceremonies.
- We invited our closest friends and family to join via Zoom.
- And when the day came, we logged on, said our vows, and just like that — we were married.
I said “I do” from my apartment. My spouse-to-be said it from their military base.
It was real. It was simple. And it was ours.
The officiant made it feel official. The ceremony was intimate and sweet. And we received our official marriage certificate the same day — no courthouse, no plane tickets, no headaches.
Since then, we’ve used our online marriage to handle joint bank accounts, and every agency has recognized it — no issues at all.
If you’re trying to make your relationship official from afar, don’t wait. Online marriage is recognized, and it’s a beautiful way to start your future — even if you’re not in the same place.
We’re proof that love doesn’t need borders — and that what matters most is the vows.